I think I’ve mentioned before that I’m not nearly so entertaining as Dave Barry, but I still do my best to do some sort of “Year In Review”, although usually it is in the form of a newsletter that I send out at Christmas. Well, this year I didn’t send out a newsletter. I have a lot of reasons for that, such as the obvious money-saving excuse, but on a deeper level, I think it is because I have come to the conclusion that, those who are truly interested in what is going on in my life and that of my husband and children, either call me regularly, or read this blog.
I love blogging. I intentionally have not put up any ads on it, to make it cleaner and friendlier for my readers. However, my best
friends never read this blog. And, if they did, it wouldn’t give them any new information. I talk to them regularly on the phone or in person. My extended family, to my knowledge, never reads this blog. In particular: my brother and sister and most of the rest of my family do not read this blog. Nor do they talk to me. I should mention, however, that my sister does call me on random occasions, and she always seems to know where I live and what my phone number is. I can only assume that means she still loves me! 😉 On the rare occasions that I call them, the conversation usually starts with them saying something warm and caring, letting me know that I matter to them and they keep a close eye on me. Something like “Oh, hi! Where are you? Do you still live in North Carolina?” Or “I don’t have your phone number.” (Please note that I have had the same cell phone number for the last decade, and that for the past two and a half decades I have sent out the obligatory annual newsletter apprising everyone of my address and phone numbers.)
Now, my immediate family does read this blog. My mom, Gaylon, Kendall, his fiance Lishi and Faith usually read it voluntarily. Alex reads it if I threaten him. He has Facebook friends to talk to, after all. Some of Kendall’s friends read my blog, and I am pretty sure several of my homeschool mom friends read this blog.
I do have a huge, accidental readership, though. Back in September, when we were preparing for Alex’s “Victorian Themed Birthday Party” I decided to blog about the research I had done on Victorian clothing, and how it differed from Edwardian clothing. I titled that post “Victoria vs. Edward”. Well, apparently if you are a Twilight fan, you will spend a lot of time Googling those names and coming to my blog. I have gotten literally hundreds of “hits” from all over the world from people Googling those names!! Sorry, guys! Just a conservative, Catholic homeschool mom here.
But, I digress. I was discussing why I didn’t send out my customary Christmas newsletter with some sort of year-in-review. Well, the other reason was that I didn’t have much to say. One year ago, we really thought we knew exactly where God was leading us, and what we would be doing. Now, that year has passed, and we only know one thing for sure: we don’t have a
clue!! Gaylon is still working in Texas, the rest of us are still living in North Carolina. Our house has not sold. (Duh) In fact, we only had ONE couple come to look at it, throughout the entirety of 2009, and that was back in January. Yes, of course we will try again in 2010. We have to. And yes, my mother still lives with us. We love her, and hope she will stay with us forever. So, those are the questions we usually get asked. For the stuff you didn’t know to ask:
Gaylon. . . loves working for Network Plumbing in Merkel, Texas, but of course he misses his family and wishes we could all be
together. He comes home about every 3 weeks. (Note: I think he does a lot more ranching than plumbing, but that’s just my
Kendall. . . is now a Senior at University of North Carolina, Asheville. He is majoring in Journalism. Last February he became engaged to the beautiful and delightful Alicia Skojec, and they plan to marry next summer (2010). We are thrilled for them!
Alex. . . is a Senior in High School, and is still homeschooled. He has not done much acting this year, but has really focused on his piano and guitar, and is excelling at both. He is very active in his church youth group and is looking forward to going with them to the March For Life in Washington, D.C., next month.
Faith. . .is a domestic goddess in the making! She won three ribbons at the Western North Carolina State Fair in September. Two 2nd place ribbons for a denim, appliqued jumper that she sewed, and for a crocheted scarf, and a 3rd place ribbon for a quilt. We took a couple of quilting classes this Fall, and she is really, really good at quilting. (Me, not so much! LOL) She also got her own sewing machine and has been sewing amazing things. She is a fantastic cook, as well. She also taught herself to
knit and has turned out some really pretty knitted scarves and pillows. We have been studying herbal remedies this year, and Faith has done a lot of work wildcrafting and preparing her own herbal remedies. She is in 7th grade this year, and is still homeschooled. She loves to read, especially Fantasy and Sci-Fi. Her brothers have been happy to loan her all of their books. 🙂
Valarie. . . still loves “documenting the dead” (Genealogy) and homeschooling. I am also still working on some writing projects, that I might actually carve time out for this new year. I am forever trying to lose weight, and nope, it’s not working. But alas, I shall start anew in a couple of days with (hopefully) renewed vigor and commitment!
So, there is our year in review. It has blessedly passed by quickly, and we are praying very hard that this year, our house will sell, and we will get to all be together again. Because, even though we could have sent out a newsletter bragging on our kids in depth, the truth is that this has been a very difficult year, and we really are glad it’s over. In fact, it’s been, overall, a pretty rotten decade. We are praying a LOT that the next year/decade will be infinitely better. We appreciate any prayers on our behalf, and please know that we pray for our friends and family regularly, whether we hear from you, or not.